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OVERWHELMED CARETAKER NOT TAKEN CARE OF.

I don't want be to long as I have to get what rest I can get. Here goes..

I have been a Care Taker to my uncle for the past 8 years as I made a sole promise/vow to him to help him fix his house from the inside and out. As time progressed there was something wrong but the family never really took the time to pay attention or immerse themselves to pay attention to him. He is the eldest of my blood line at 66. After years of working along side him in my personal work to be gainfully employed. He gave me opportunities as he sad he would help my along my way as well. I noticed things which nobody knew of him personally. He keeps everyone clueless of what's really going on inside his mind. He was in a relationship his girlfriend that turned out to be a dead end. He carried around so much burden and depression really hit him hard. So much he would smoke 🚬 two packs a day. I never knew if anyone could do something like this.Towards the end he story I was able to have him file for SSDI as he made statements to why his 🚕 🚖 business was failing. One of many false statements when I see what he does on a daily. He steadily decline and even ended up missing for 57hrs driving his taxi 3.5 away from his home. The whole family plus the Police 🚔🚨👮‍♂️👮‍♀️🚓 issued a bolo(be.on.the.lookout) report for him at 2am. When he left his house at 10pm.
He was found because his tags was ran at a gas station for a car that ran out of gas and he had no cash on hand to pay for gas.
That was number 1 of 5 times he went missing. It wasn't until his brother found a permanent solution to safely have him inside his home as a safe haven for him to be.
For the record his Psychiatrist Diagnosed him with Lew Body Dementia, Dementia with Psychosis and Sun downing Dementia.
My world didn't a 345🔂. I know that doesn't make sense but my mind couldn't grasp the concept of what was to come before me. I uncovered that he is at stage 7 of his illness. He urinate everywhere/anywhere in the 🏠. He also 💩 in which he has stepped on it and even played with it😬🫨😷. He use to have OCD when it came to cleanness. He taught me how to wash an 🍎 🍏 because of the wax on it. Sorry I went off. I also have my own condition I no long have manu friend but I ask of them to please understand that I have someone that needs my help and I'm a man of my word. So many people were so quick to dismiss my problem with the only solution was to put him into a nursing home. I have heard horror stories and his survival life would've been reduced by 35%
I worked but because due to the stress and the 24/7/365 care..I'm overwhelmed and exhausted..I wish I could've gotten married when things were great back in my days. I would at least have had my family to help me with him.

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