Over trusting mum who has nowhere else to turn
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| Hi, thanks for taking the time to read my story. After 23 years of marriage my husband not only left home with a younger model he left me with 2 young children to look after. Over the years he has spent all i had worked hard and saved for leaving me with nothing. I got myself another job and worked hard to keep myself and my children some weeks 70+ hrs, after 3 years my youngest child was diagnosed with severe dyspraxia he has very violent outbursts and started to self harm at the age of 7 and i had to give up work and give all my time to him. I have been left with loans and credit card from my ex husband that are now running into the tens of thousands and finding it very hard to make ends meet, seems i was paying for the new girlfriends meals out and weekends away. I had managed to save from when i worked but being the trusting person that i am i had my money locked in a draw in the house and one particular visit from my ex to see the children i left him looking after them while i popped out to grab some milk, once he had gone i went to the draw to get something and the tin had gone, the police were involved but could prove nothing as his print were in the house from his visits, not only over the years had he taken what i had even when he had gone he still cleaned me out. I'm not asking for much just as much as you can spare so i can try and get back to normal and out of this debt he has left us in. I know i wont be able to leave my child with just anyone and start full time work again so i have started making jams and pickles from home and selling them to friends and family but i don't make enough to clear the debt i have been given ... just goes to show you can be too trusting in life and i have learnt that the hard way.I know and respect the saying we are born with nothing and take nothing with us but cant stand the thought of owing others in the years inbetween Thanks again for taking the time to read this. |
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